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Childhood always points us in the direction of adulthood.
I didn’t understand the concept of a boundary up until a couple of years ago.
I had no idea that it was even a thing….to peacefully make your mark….and that this mark is valid. It’s legitimate. You have the inherent power to do so.
I didn’t see a lick of healthy boundaries in the modeling of parenting I received, let alone any family member.
Creating healthy, genuine, energetically beneficial boundaries is not a new-age psychological carousel on Instagram.
It is an evolutionary trait that is genetically encoded within you and me.
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Within my work, I like to title this the dog conflict. There was an intention set when I made the subject line of this post a “soft bad bitch activation.”
It is intrinsically connected to a bladder mucosa and urethra conflict.
Originally, the urinary system consisted of two bladders. As we evolve, so does the planet.
As time spanned, the two bladders grew together forming one single organ (conversely, the kidneys were at first one organ, which later divided into two kidneys). This is why the bladder and urethra have two brain control centers, one on each brain hemisphere.
Over the cyclical stages our dear Mother Earth has grown through, one of them was using the bladder as a means to alert predators, kin, and species of all kinds that we created a territory.
That is what boundaries do, they create space, and they say “Don’t go past this line here.” They offer us clarity. They are a metaphorical pee within our relationships, social media, co-worker invitations, texts, etc.
I have had several UTIs in my young adulthood.
Several.
Never from having multiple sexual partners (because back then I was adamant that you needed to be my soulmate to even think about entering inside me). It was never from not being sanitary, changing out of my yoga pants fast enough, or not taking enough probiotics.
*Note to self: contemplate making a probiotics myth post soon*